Hope has a lot of strength if you think about it. People losing hope about something is essentially them breaking down in front of the life’s challenges. A broken relationship is one of such challenges which can completely make a person crazy.
There are some ways described in this blog which will definitely help you in order to fix a broken relationship. But before that, you will have to answer a couple of questions with utmost honesty:
- Does your relationship really deserve another chance? Are you absolutely sure about it?
- Does your partner want to get back together?
If the answer to these two questions is yes then please read the 5 tied and tested tips to get your love life back on tracks now:
How To Fix A Broken Relationship?
1. Compassion is The Key. You Need To Have It In Order To Get Your Love Back
There are literally hundreds of different reasons why breakups happen and you can’t claim to know them all.
However, what you can do is show some compassion to your ex.
They have been in the same situation as you are.
Talk to your ex on regular basis and tell them how much you miss them.
Don’t over-emphasis on this because overdoing it might just sabotage whatever is left between the two of you.
Even when both of you are not together in a relationship, compassion and concerns should be your top priority to win your partner back.
2. Make Them Remember The Good Times That You Have Spent Together
Talk to your ex on a regular basis and try to bring those memories into the conversation which might trigger some sort of emotional feelings.
Talk about the trip to Switzerland you had last summer. About the day when you first met her. These things have really strong emotions attached to them. And when you talk about these memories, the flashbacks give you goosebumps if you really have a memorable time together.
That bungee jumping you did together and how it felt hanging hundreds of feet above the sea-level together with the help of a single rope tied with your legs.
By talking about these memories, your partner will get a signal that you really want to be together again. A subtle but emotionally strong hint will do the job for you.
3. Let The Past be Past – Don’t Talk About The Fights You Had
If you really want to get back together with your ex-partner, you need to move on with the issues and the fights you had in past.
Keep in mind the intent you have to get your love back in your life.
This intent needs to be bigger than any fight or issues you had while both of you were together.
If you’d argue over the same things again and again, why would they ever want to come back to you?
Now if you have some new issue you are arguing about and are losing the argument, don’t even think of bringing the past fights and use them as analogies.
This action of yours can backfire.
4. Admitting That You Did Something Wrong Can Mend Things For You
Saying sorry will not make you any lesser of a human being.
Always try to evaluate what went wrong in your life and how many roles you had to play in that.
If it was your fault because of which your partner left you, you need to admit this fault of yours and come all clean in front of your love.
Say sorry and try not to break their heart and trust again.
Promise this to them and to yourself too.
5. Talk About the Things Which Are Messing Your Relationship And Eliminate Them For Good
There are things which you should talk about and there are things which you should never talk about.
If your relationship is experiencing some downtime, it is the perfect time to make some amendments.
Talk about the things which are giving you a hard time in this relationship.
Talk about the times you felt a bit uneasy or were uncomfortable because of your partner. Don’t blame anyone and try to figure out a long-term solution.
If you don’t talk about these things, you’ll be keeping these things inside you and eventually, it’ll explode in form of a bigger fight.